by Vieshal Gopal

Returning to academia two years after completing my undergraduate degree proved to be a formidable challenge. I felt like I had lost touch with the study routine, often burning the midnight oil and pulling all-nighters. Weekends were spent studying to keep up with coursework and secure this degree. Adding to this academic endeavor was my move to a new city, far from my hometown, where I found myself a complete stranger.

The shift in my surroundings was more drastic than I had anticipated. I had transitioned from a quiet, warm, suburban home with a lush garden to a bustling urban landscape, surrounded by tar and pavement. The rooms neighbouring mine, once inhabited by those I love, were now occupied by strangers with diverse backgrounds. However, the most profound change was the physical distance from the people that knew me best. A quick five-minute drive had stretched into a demanding 17-hour journey or an expensive two-hour flight. Despite my readiness for self-sufficiency, adept at cooking, cleaning, and known for my sociable nature, nothing could prepare me for the overwhelming loneliness that came with the absence of my loved ones.

I encountered numerous challenging days, balancing the rigors of academics, the necessity of working tirelessly to achieve great marks, and the importance of maintaining a nutritious diet that wouldn’t break the bank. The weight of these responsibilities was undeniable, yet not every aspect of my journey resembled the bleak winters of Cape Town.

Throughout this year, I underwent profound self-discovery and deepened my gratitude for my family, who remained a constant source of support and motivation, despite the physical distance. The lab manager/staff, lecturers, and supervisors within the genetics department played a pivotal role during this demanding honours year. Their empathy, encouragement, understanding, and unwavering support significantly shaped my experience and kept me going. Furthermore, I gained invaluable insights into the realm of science through their shared experiences, stoking my enthusiasm for future career prospects.

Despite facing numerous setbacks, I’ve come to recognize my inner strength—the ability to rebound, forge ahead, and tackle any challenge. While it often felt like the negatives were piling up relentlessly, I’ve learned to consistently remind myself of the persistent and core positives in my life, and how blessed I am to have the people I have in my life, which hold far greater importance.

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