by Lize Mostert
2023 has been one of the most challenging years since starting university at TUKS in 2020. I have
made some lasting relationships, but I have also had to lose some friendships that I have made in my
undergraduate years by choosing to study at UCT. However, I must admit that I have grown so much
through this year and even though my spirit was broken most of the times, I have accomplished
more than I could imagine.
I will list some of the most valuable lessons that I have learned:
- Mentors are important
This year I had to step out of my comfort zone and approach people in order to make progress in my
studies. I had to form a good relationship with my convener which has been one of the most valuable
relationships in my honours year; she was the one I went to for advice and I am so glad that I was
able to have this support. Another big way that I had to engage with mentors, was by talking to my
supervisors (A LOT). Even though it meant that I would have to redo an assignment, I learned so
much by approaching my supervisors continually throughout my assignments. The advice from
mentors this year was priceless - Making friends, even if it is just one
As an introvert, I struggle to make friends and the hard reality is that I don’t always get along with
everyone in my class. Making one best friend in my stream this year has been the best thing. This
meant having someone I could have coffees with between/after classes, I had someone to bounce
ideas off, and I had a good partner for assignments (even if we worked at different paces). If there is
one thing that I take away from this year that will last me my lifetime, it is my friend Sam. - It doesn’t hurt to ask
One thing that really carried me through this year was asking a lot of questions. Asking for help when
I needed it, asking for advice when I didn’t know the best way to approach something, asking for
feedback on my assignments and tests, etc. I am sure I made my supervisor crazy, but knowing that I
could ask questions when I needed it, helped me to survive this year in an unfamiliar university with
a lot of unfamiliar people.
I am so glad that I had the opportunity to grow at UCT this year and I am excited to see where this
year will lead to in my next steps.
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